You walk in the door, drop your drawers and everyone starts getting down. Each member of that couple has different expectations, as well. Men might be raring for the chance to make out with another woman, but he might not be so open when it comes to watching his woman make out with another man. You need to ask for consent before you touch a stranger, but more importantly, you need to ask your partner for consent before you touch that stranger. This is a sad reality of any encounter.